The Essence of Bruce Chin
Family first ~ Principled ~ Loyal
Trustworthy ~ Compassionate ~ Authentic
Bruce and I met several times over the past six years at a very cursory level. I volunteered to photograph the Helping Hands Jamaica Foundation walkathon. One family was always present—the Chin family. They were far from the only family I met. Indeed, the whole collective of people involved feels like a family.
Photographing the walkathon wasn’t enough for me; I wanted more. Eventually, an opportunity presented itself for me to go to Jamaica on one of the school builds. Every group going was special and unique because of the different people attending. One common thread is that you go there as strangers and return with a new family.
Watching the people who take their children on these builds is one of my most extraordinary experiences. These are very special parents who want to ensure their children appreciate just how fortunate they are. I’ve seen it in action firsthand. It’s not just that; they have incredible bonds with their children. On many occasions, even conversations with their children leave me in awe. The world needs more parents like these, and I might add children like that. It would be a better, softer, kinder, and more considerate world. All one has to do is see their children in action and speak with them. I’ve been fortunate to attend three builds with families who brought their children. These children went to work on the build—at times, I am ashamed of my actual contribution to the build. My contribution is different, and I am starting to accept that.
On my second build, I met Bruce and Serene Chin. They brought their three children, Dylan, Logan, and Maya. The children were delightful young people on many levels, very much a reflection of their parents.
Another takeaway was just how connected the whole family is. On our way to our accommodations in Jamaica, we stopped at the family house where Bruce’s dad grew up. It was touching to see Bruce FaceTime with his father, who could not make the trip. Bruce sharing the moment made it so special and endeared the whole family to us.
Giving back in such a unique and memorable way, including multi-generations, is so energizing and touching to witness firsthand. Meet Bruce
What has been your biggest challenge, and how did you overcome it?
I do not recognize a single life-defining challenge, and I feel blessed. I view life as a series of challenges.
There is a recurring challenge: self-doubt or, at times, imposter syndrome. I don’t think I’ll ever completely overcome it, but I’ve been fortunate to have a circle of family and friends who keep me grounded and give me the confidence I need. Their support fuels me, and I won’t let self-doubt stop me from becoming who I am meant to be.
At some time, you reached a fork in the road. At that time, it didn’t feel like it, but looking back, you realize it was a big moment that changed your life. Describe yours.
Rather than a fork in the road, I look back and cherish the people who’ve shaped my path with essential lessons. From my dad, I learned the strength that comes from family. From mom, to be proud of who you are. My wife, Serene, has shown me how to let someone be themselves and have the patience to support them on that journey. My grandmother showed me what it means to love someone wholeheartedly. My kids inspire me with optimism and allow me to see the world with fresh eyes. My sisters taught me the importance of staying grounded—they never let my head get too big but always supported me, no matter what.
What is one gem you learned on your journey that you would love to share? Alternatively, what hint would you tell a younger version of yourself?
Life is about moments and memories with your loved ones. True treasure isn’t what you have but who you have in your life.
YOU may donate to the Helping Hands Jamaica Foundation directly at their website:
https://helpinghandsjamaica.com/donate